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		<title>No Kidding!</title>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 16 Oct 2009 15:29:40 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Jared</dc:creator>
		
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		<description><![CDATA[No smoking. No parking. No loitering. No personal checks. No shirt, no shoes… no service! And what’s next, you wonder? No kidding. No, really—no kidding!
It has been said laughter is the best medicine. Maybe that’s why the government wants so badly to take over medicine, because no one seems to have a plan to cover laughter, anymore. Maybe there needs to be a [...]]]></description>
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		<title>More Questions Than Answers</title>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 16 Oct 2009 15:28:26 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Jared</dc:creator>
		
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		<description><![CDATA[I don’t trust people who “know” things.
Let me be clear: I have greatly benefitted from the knowledge of others. There are many things to learn all around us. There is no degree, title, badge, or uniform that offers clear delineation of whom may be a teacher in the school of life. If you want to find out who has [...]]]></description>
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		<title>You&#8217;re Opinionated, In My Opinion</title>
		<link>http://myownterms.com/2009/10/youre-opinionated-in-my-opinion/</link>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 16 Oct 2009 15:27:01 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Jared</dc:creator>
		
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In having any type of debate with another person, there are many reflexive responses that are identifiable fallacies that would never pass muster in even a Freshman-level debate club. People often turn to specious reasoning and personal attacks and diversions from the real subject when in the midst of confrontation. However, in my personal experience, if I’ve [...]]]></description>
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		<title>What&#8217;s Your Motivation?</title>
		<link>http://myownterms.com/2009/10/whats-your-motivation/</link>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 16 Oct 2009 15:25:26 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Jared</dc:creator>
		
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		<description><![CDATA[It seems we now live in a world where people are less inhibited about discussions of once-taboo topics. Ask anyone about religion or politics, and you’ll likely get an answer. And, many times, don’t ask—you’ll still get a very thorough accounting of someone else’s belief system. They’ll probably tell you how much money they made last year along [...]]]></description>
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		<title>Of Platitudes and Attitudes</title>
		<link>http://myownterms.com/2009/10/of-platitudes-and-attitudes/</link>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 16 Oct 2009 15:23:29 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Jared</dc:creator>
		
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		<description><![CDATA[At its heart, language serves to further understanding and inspire new thought. What we each possess in our own minds is uniquely powerful and unmatched in the natural world throughout all other species&#8230; the ability to become more than we once were and grow significantly beyond our natural instincts. Coupled with the ability to communicate complex ideas, [...]]]></description>
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		<title>Deliberation or Dogma</title>
		<link>http://myownterms.com/2009/10/deliberation-or-dogma/</link>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 16 Oct 2009 15:21:54 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Jared</dc:creator>
		
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		<description><![CDATA[Any business must, first and foremost, serve a need. There are plenty of needs out there, each representing a person in need. There are just as many clichés as how to best serve a need. Give a man a fish or teach him to fish. Common wisdom tells us that teaching a man to fish is greater both morally [...]]]></description>
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		<title>Stupid Questions</title>
		<link>http://myownterms.com/2009/08/stupid-questions/</link>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 25 Aug 2009 13:48:50 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Jared</dc:creator>
		
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You’ve probably heard that there is no such thing as a stupid question.
I beg to differ!
Being a contrarian is nothing new for me, but examining such “common wisdom” is all a part of communication strategy. If the purpose of a question is to obtain information, then there are certainly questions that not only do not obtain, [...]]]></description>
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		<title>They Shoot Messengers, Don&#8217;t They?</title>
		<link>http://myownterms.com/2009/08/they-shoot-messengers-dont-they/</link>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 25 Aug 2009 13:47:19 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Jared</dc:creator>
		
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If it can be said that no good deed goes unpunished, then there are few things in life that are quite so punishing as loyalty in friendship. Sometimes, the more loyal one is to their friends, it only seems to beg the question in others if loyalty to one is inherently disloyal to another. Sometimes we can [...]]]></description>
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		<title>What Goes Around&#8230;</title>
		<link>http://myownterms.com/2009/08/what-goes-around/</link>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 25 Aug 2009 13:46:00 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Jared</dc:creator>
		
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The job market stinks. That much is obvious to the millions looking for work.
However, that’s no reason for the relative few companies hiring to feel all ecstatic! Like a powderkeg or stick of dynamite, the current situation is powerful but dangerous.
Things always change, and as a matter of opinion, it seems to hit hardest those who assumed [...]]]></description>
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		<title>Not A or B, But C!</title>
		<link>http://myownterms.com/2009/07/not-a-or-b-but-c/</link>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 31 Jul 2009 19:12:35 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Jared</dc:creator>
		
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		<description><![CDATA[It’s a given that most people choose to avoid direct conflict… I don’t have empirical numbers to cite, but the anecdotal evidence in this case is overwhelming. Many of us perceive conflict as a waste of resources and energy and as being generally disorderly and uncivilized. Our perceptions of conflict often don’t come from the best examples… [...]]]></description>
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